Dear unpaid carers,
Today, on International M.E. Awareness Day, I am in awe of each and every one of you. I’m writing this, thinking particularly of someone truly remarkable – Shauna.
Shauna, your unwavering love and dedication to Row shines so brightly. To see your strength as you navigate the immense challenges of caring for Row, who has been bedbound with severe M.E. for so many months, is truly humbling. You are a force of nature, not only tending to Row’s every need with such tenderness, but also juggling work and creating the inspiring ’40 for 40′ campaign to raise vital funds for Row’s additional medical needs and crucial M.E. research. Your capacity for love and action seems boundless.
But Shauna, and all of you incredible unpaid carers, please know that you are not unseen. Your tireless efforts, often carried out behind closed doors, are the backbone of care for so many living with M.E. and other chronic illnesses. You are the constant, the advocate, the unwavering source of comfort and support. You navigate complex medical needs, emotional burdens, and often financial strain, all while holding onto hope and fighting for your loved ones.
Your love is demonstrated in the gentle adjustments of pillows, the careful administration of medication, the countless hours spent researching and advocating. It’s in the small victories celebrated and the difficult days weathered with unwavering compassion.
I know words can sometimes feel inadequate in the face of such profound dedication. But please know that your love, your resilience, and your unwavering commitment make an immeasurable difference. You are seen, you are valued, and you are deeply appreciated.
Sending you all the strength, the support, and the love you so selflessly give.
I’m so pleased to call Shauna a friend and hope, one day, I will get to meet Row.
With heartfelt admiration,
Sally